Dear Lover,
How is the state of your heart? I hope it's at peace. You said you love me and want to be my lover forever.....Well, the "r" in the word "lover" means that you would respect my definition of love to really be my lover.
We live in a world where love is defined as sex, and as such many people live in the illusion that sex is a prove of love, but i want to define my version of love to you.
If you love me as you said, you will be patient and wait for us to walk down the aisle to declare public togetherness before asking for my body. You will be kind enough not to say you love me and want to be mine forever, when all you long for is my body and not a marital commitment.
If you love me, you will not build a wall of jealousy around me but a bridge of trust that will enable me fulfil my God-given purpose in life. You will not take pride in your physique, using it as a tool of seduction, but will seek to preserve my purity and yours too. Your words will not be filled with flattery or boastful assertions, but words of one whose confidence is in God not self.
If you are in love with me, you will not be rude and disregard my values but will respect and uphold them. you will not demand to always have your own way, but will gently accept to work in agreement in order to achieve a mutual and Godly benefit for us.
If you're in love with me, you will understand my fraility as an imperfect human with flaws. you will learn to forgive my wrongs and not become my chief judge with a record book of my Inconsistences, but also seek for ways to help me overcome them.
Yes, i know you understand that someone else desired to have my heart,but could not, your love for me will not make you rejoice that such one is lonely but will make you pray & rejoice when such one finds a heart to love and be loved by.
If you're head-over-heels in love with me, you will be honest with me at all times, speaking the truth in love and not using deception in order to keep the relationship.
Every true love relationship is a journey not a day's celebration and as such you would stick with me and love me at all times not only on St. Valentine's remembrance day.
Every love story has got its challenges; if your love for me is True love, then you will first build a strong relationship with Jesus-who himself is love personified in order to secure & stregthen your loving capacity.
When that is done, you"ll never lose faith in us, you"ll be ever hopeful for us and endure all that may come our way.
This, i ask, not of you alone, but of myself towards you also. God is love. May He help us.
Yours Trully,
Lover-to-be.
#Redefining Love#
This letter is dedicated to all Christian Singles who stand for Godliness and purity, and all who desire the same. God bless you.